So some context, we were going to return a few things to a store and I took a screenshot of the order barcode on his phone for one item that was from an older order. I typed in “Photos” to the search bar to get to the app bc I have a hard time finding apps on his phone. Anyway, the Notes app popped up first and showed all these bikini/cleavage shots of women I know, all that we went to school with. I confront him, he admits that he masturbates to their pics 1-2x a week. I feel really self conscious bc all of the women have large breasts and I have always had small ones. I feel betrayed, self conscious, and disgusted because I have always been open and honest with him and he has hid things from me before but never (to my knowlegde) cheated on me. He said it was a mistake and that he has a porn addiction. I have no problem with him watching porn, but jerking off to pics of my friends feels like crossing a huge line. Now when I see them, all I’ll be thinking about is this. There is more to the story but that’s all I feel like sharing for now. I feel so disrespected. We grew up together and I considered him to be my best friend. Idk how i feel now.
I (23F) found out my husband (23M) has been regularly masturbating to other women’s insta/fb pics (most that we know, some that are my friends)
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Yikes
Did he take the cleavage shots?
Wtf. What grown man jerks off to clothed pics when you can hand select any woman you want in porn? Definitely understand why you’re pissed, as it’s extremely weird for them to blatantly jerk off to your friends. No clue on advice.. but yea, weird situation. At least he admitted it, and I’m sure he was ultra embarrassed.
I personally don’t think he will stop, he admitted to being a porn addict and that’s a hard thing to break.
The fact that he is doing that to pictures of women you know is a huge NO for me toooo, it’s rude and disrespectful.
I can see why it would make you feel insecure, and frankly it would make me worried as well that if he had the chance he would sleep with one of these women he would.
I definitely say talk to him or go to some counseling together if you can.
If he’s getting that turned on by your friends (or people you both know) to the extent of masturbating to their pictures and saving them in his phone, that is a huge glaring red flag that he could try to have sex with them if given the opportunity.
Not uncommon