There was a few moments were my partner did this but I never took them personal or that serious but today it kinda was my breaking point I am 22m she’s 28f tonight one of her friends ended up fighting and ending a 17 year relationship and she offered her friend to stay at our home and when her friend arrived she was crying and we were trying to comfort her and at some point I told her friend that I already had food made that I cooked really well and whatever she wanted that she shouldn’t be afraid to ask for anything and my gf got in the middle of it and said “you’re just a frustrated cook, you don’t even have a culinary arts degree” and that made me feel like shit because she’s already done with her bachelors and all and I’m currently on my 4th year of university but she’s always degrading me somehow like in a very passive aggressive way and I’m upset with her behavior, I don’t want to make a scene rn because her friend is going through a rough moment but damn she’s mean and I’m starting to dislike that.
My gf is very mean when her friends are near
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You SHOULD dislike that! It’s insulting and demeaning. Shame on your girlfriend.
No normal person says that to their partner.
Respect yourself. Leave . It’s a lost cause.
If comments in that vein are normal, you need to look out for you and gtfo there.
I’m sorry but WTF, I’m a great cook and have absolutely zero background in cookery/hospitality, I work in IT.
If someone disrespected my cooking abilities like that I would never cook for them again.
You have done nothing wrong here and the only think i can think of is that your GF is trying to make you less appealing to her friend.
Stuffed if I would stay in a relationship that was that unsupportive. I’m a 40year old guy btw, married kids and I do most of the cooking
You are worth more mate.
She’s six years older than you and likes to put you down and insult you. Do you really want to be in a relationship like that?
Do most people have culinary degrees im unaware of? Also this was one giant sentence lol
This is the part where most people ask “does age
make a difference in a relationship ” ohhhh it sure does
is your gf always putting you down? if so ask yourself why do you want to be with someone who treats you like crap?
Don’t make your girlfriend food again, simple. She sounds awful, you do need to leave her
Leave her? Disrespectful like that she will cheat on you, if isn’t already.
Id never even so much as make this person a sammich ever again. Cook an amazing meal only for yourself every night. Seriously, fuck her
How about you throw her and her friend out because she has no respect for you. Your girlfriend thinks she’s better than you because she’s older and you need to decide if you’re going to keep taking her crap. I wouldn’t be surprised if she hasn’t already replaced you with a new boyfriend because she seems like the type that doesn’t care for your feelings. Her Bachelors degree is no more important or valuable than any degree that you already have. She shows that with her uncouth attitude. She comes across as someone who really doesn’t like you but is just putting up with you until she finds someone or something better. Dump her before she dumps you.
What a fucking bitch. Dump her.
I’ve had a similar thing happen in my partnership. When we are with certain people my partner is more aggressive and makes hurtful comments to me. The next time the two of you are alone and not influenced by any substances. Tell her how her comments and insults effect you negatively and are hurtful. The next time the situation pops up will be the test, if she can actively identify herself saying those things and corrects herself. If she continues to lay into you it may be time to re-evaluate the relationship. Cheers
Edit: my partner actively identifies the moments in which she is being mean to me and we have worked through the issue together ❤️
That’s shitty. I’m sorry. Do you have something against the use of periods at the end of a sentence?
Leave her? Disrespectful like that she will cheat on you, if isn’t already.
Show her you have respect for you even if she has not. Pack and go and let her see herself for who she is. If you don’t you will always on the end of her tyraids with little respite.